Acdf neck surgery

I was already pretty scared but after reading all this im really scared . u see im a big baby and am afraid i wont be able to take the pain. Ppl say my pain is not bad enough for surgery but they dont know how i feel but im thinking after reading this that the pains gonna get worse with surgery not better. Im a single woman with not alot of support. I was suppose to have this surgery before pandemenic i am so scared and dont know what to do i have pain in neck shoulders leg back not excruciating but i can handle it dr thinks all my pain is coming from neck issues thanks in advance